Gypsy.. you want a baby but you do not want the headache of having a grown baby along with it? Well, that ain't going to happened. If you are going to have a baby with a man he is going to be a part of you and the baby's life. So you will have to deal with him too. That is not a good enough reason to put down marriage. I have a 13 year old girl with my first husband and I still have to deal with him because of her. That is her father. Oh, yah I got preganet before we got married, we married two years after I had her. That is way I say to you if you want a baby get a man that is not a big baby. LOL