majazmin, first of all why the triple posting?? There is no need to repeat the post.

Second if you want to come with him you must marry before coming in and he has to inform that to the company offering him the job so the proper actions can be taken for paperwork and related visa for "wife".

Finding a job will depend on your skills, expertise and overall in the market availability for a suitable position.

Start looking at sites like

www.monstergulf.com

www.bayt.com

www.gulftalent.com

Regards...and good luck!!