I dont find these two abnormal in any sort. The sex education should come with age. The child must know what is right and what is wrong. If u tell ur child that sex out of wedlock or in ur teens is wrong(sin)then there is no point in telling them about safe sex.

In my opinion in the present circumstances one should tell the child about sex but also tell them the consequences of having it out of wedlock or at a tender age.

For me personally when my children ask me about certain things I just tell them thats our way of life (of muslims).Then its up to the individual if he/she wants to tread that path or wander.We are different from jews or catholics or non believers. As simple as that and believe me it makes things very easy.