I know why he worries, I've been to Afghanistan and well Qatar is a complete blessing compared it. But, what is ur field of work? ur education? There are alot of foriegn companies opening up in Afg and if ur a professional, I think u can get a really well-paid job (considering the situation there), but would u really want to live there?

If u don't, well start looking for jobs in Qatar or elsewhere, it's a big planet we live in and I'm sure u'll find a job somewhere. There are job agencies u can give ur CV to and they'll fix u up, or other alternatives. Don't worry, u'll be fine.

As for feeling like a refugee, I think it comes with being an expat for a long time...u don't know where u belong anymore.

Best of luck!