sometimes people might be joking about those things. I don't think that someone can come to someone like you to tell her that being in the fourth place on QL means that you area talkative person. Everyone got his/her own opinion, we all know who you are and appreciate everything that you are doing :)

tcom is right, living your life according to what people wants you to live will not work. People would never get satisfied with you, if you did something that someone will like ... the other one won't like it ...