I do it too, help someone and tell them in return help someone else. Sooner or later without realising, it comes back to you. Believe you, me.

But one guy I have stopped tipping and giving money to is our office boy. (Well not totally stopped giving, I give him off and on, on my terms). What got me was, every two, three weeks he would come to me with a sob story effecting his mother or sisters or brothers in Srilanka and needing Qr.300/- which he said he would pay back (Ya, I would take money from them - kill me first). I told him to stop it, I do not want to hear about his mother and family, cause I cannot afford to pay him all the time.

He has also collect debts in the entire office.

I do not hold him to that, I just give when I can. I got expenses too.