guys ... the thread was talking about break-up blues. So how can you enlighten this thread? It would go away from it's purpose and meaning and it would be kinda of Hidden-Hijack to this thread.

Stay in the subject please, it starts to turn into Men-Women fight :) Why do women blame men and men blam women? The start came from an honest sit with yourself, see what you did wrong because you know what you did good and bad, right or wrong. Even if you know that that person did something wrong, do you expect him/her to admit it? Not always ... it requires a lot of courage soemtimes to admit the it and say: Yes .. I was wrong ...