Bismillah ar-Rahman ar-Rahim. If you are a muslim you will find the answer in the sunnah. It is the best place to look for answers. Look at the lives of the wives of the prophets and also the hadiths on marriage and selecting suitable suitors. These are a more reliable guide than the risk of taking advice of people who have no responsibility to you. If you are still in doubt you are advised to seek assistance through the Ishtikara to gain guidance in times of indecision. For best advice look to the scholars, as even this is just the well-intended advice of a mere muslim sister. Salaam.