I dont consider this as judging people.

Personally, even for being a man who likes ladies and fun, won't consider going to Bangkok for example
Also won't consider going to Europe or any country that has security mania. Cannot stand and will not allow a police dog to smell me.
I opted to stay here during Summer and not go to my country as I do every year coz of high risk of bombs and war.

So dear. There is nothing wrong in what Alexa said.

On the other hand I understand and value much your opinion and the honest and sensitive feeling towards the poor.

God bless you