The 2 things i'm getting out of this thread are thoughts like:

1)it's ok to think and act on it...we are only human.
2)its not ok to think and act on it.
(It in the above cases refers to the temptation to cheat).

Let me just clarify (all imho of course):
1)its normal to THINK about it...we are only human...it ok.
2)its NOT normal or alright to ACT on it (unless its an open marriage, and Gypsy and I do NOT endorse these).

The topic was whether it should cause an END to the marriage or not.

Stay safe all.

Perfection does not exist. The question therefore, is: what level of imperfection are we willing to settle for?