from person to person. But in my opinion people specially women do respond to confidence. Male chuvanists do enjoy women being shy and timid. But I personally like women who exude confidence. Met one the other night at coffee Beaneary.

As per the second part I think its just like you order food (by looking at the menu card ) and if doesnt turn out to b as u would have liked it to b, some blatantly push the plate away but others keep nibling at it and are too shy to say they dont want to have it.

So basically it all comes down to confidence.