2 Years is a lotta time... honestly if u can't "connect" in 2 years... i honestly do not thing you can connect in the future too... unless you are willing to start fresh and i mean when you start from Zero, and if she still has feelings for you maybe she would want that too.. if not, do not waste your time chasing something that can never be yours, just relax, men are like monkeys they let go of one branch and grab another :) cheer up