you can not rely on somebody else to control your anger issues....that's why it's called "self-control".

you are marrying somebody because you love her...NOT for her to keep you in check about your anger management problem.

on the positive side...YOU acknowledge the problem...that is a good sign

BUT i think the both of you should REALLY sit down and talk about your planned marriage.

GOOD LUCK! GOD bless and PEACE!