I am a man who walks alone
And when Im walking a dark road
At night or strolling through the park
When the light begins to change
I sometimes feel a little strange
A little anxious when its dark
Guess that is why I prefer to be alone and keep going and live with that because I find my strength there. When you go to the next level of the relation, you are right nothing remains the same. When we are friends there are some boundaries there, when when we are lovers all those boundaries are no longer there and that is why we see the relation different.
Before I know my limits and the line that I should not cross, but now ... I have no idea because that line somehow was eliminated. There is no more guidelines for the relation, or any directions to follow or a clear path to walk. If we don't know to where are we heading then it would be a disaster, if we know then we would at least be able to continue our journey.
The sweet thing about being friends is, we can't force ourselves or the others to tell us about the things that we don't want to share with them and vice versa. It is different when you are a lover, you feel that you got the right to know about everything. It was not upsetting you before knowing nothing, but it is driving you really nuts now. You were before saying, it is ok if you don't want to tell, but now I need to know what the hell was that.
Going with the relation to a different level would create a big change in the relation and a new starting point from where it would go up or fall down. It depends on how you two see this relation and if you are or not ready for this relation. Want it to work out or let it fall apart because none of you is serious about it.
You are welcome Owen, I don't charge anything for helping other people especially my dear and close friends. How can I? Shame on me if I did :)
I am a man who walks alone
And when Im walking a dark road
At night or strolling through the park
When the light begins to change
I sometimes feel a little strange
A little anxious when its dark
Guess that is why I prefer to be alone and keep going and live with that because I find my strength there. When you go to the next level of the relation, you are right nothing remains the same. When we are friends there are some boundaries there, when when we are lovers all those boundaries are no longer there and that is why we see the relation different.
Before I know my limits and the line that I should not cross, but now ... I have no idea because that line somehow was eliminated. There is no more guidelines for the relation, or any directions to follow or a clear path to walk. If we don't know to where are we heading then it would be a disaster, if we know then we would at least be able to continue our journey.
The sweet thing about being friends is, we can't force ourselves or the others to tell us about the things that we don't want to share with them and vice versa. It is different when you are a lover, you feel that you got the right to know about everything. It was not upsetting you before knowing nothing, but it is driving you really nuts now. You were before saying, it is ok if you don't want to tell, but now I need to know what the hell was that.
Going with the relation to a different level would create a big change in the relation and a new starting point from where it would go up or fall down. It depends on how you two see this relation and if you are or not ready for this relation. Want it to work out or let it fall apart because none of you is serious about it.
You are welcome Owen, I don't charge anything for helping other people especially my dear and close friends. How can I? Shame on me if I did :)