ok ima give you some serious advise from my personal point of view...

If i have a woman and we're great friends and then we start to be lovers and then she gets kinda possessive, then i know that is surely gonna grow to being overly possessive at some point in time... and thats when I wud start to talk to her and be like umm... dun you think we had more fun as friends... blah blah...

And that is what normally happens from either of the 2, i'm not only saying women get possessive, hell no... men do too...

But yeh a man enjoy's his freedom and to be asking permission to go for boys nite out and stuff like that may deter him from committing altogether...

So... now i forgot what point i was trying to make.... lmao!!!