There is little doubt that there are gay people who live here and that you’d be seriously unlucky to be reported to the police. But the point is, you guys are married and used to live a normal life as a couple … how much of that are you willing to compromise coming to such a conservative country? Can’t you guys come to Doha together for a short trip, just to visit and get the feeling of the place first? Maybe afterwards it’d be easier to take an educated decision.