Who lied to you and told you that it is a dating website where you can read the profiles of the users and if she is a female, then you can ask her for a date and in public? I was just wondering if some of the people joining this website are really interested in the information on the threads or in some of the people posting on that thread? There is really a huge different and if you people can't see that, please refer to the guidelines of this website and check what is this website all about. Hopefully you did not come to the wrong place ...