in my opinion, i guess, there is no such thing as perfect men or perfect woman. what may be perfect to one person may not be perfect to the other. so it depends more on how we see the individual....

and i agree, we cannot change someone into a 'perfect' person, but we need to learn to accept the 'defects' of our life mate inorder to reach to the level of comfort- which may help to breed a 'perfect' relationship.

God has created human to be "Imperfect"-so learn NOT to change but to accept. look for what suit- when it does match, then it will be 'perfect'.

---------------where there is friendship, there is NO 'hurt feelings':)--------------------