hello maxi,

again, you brought up an interesting topic..! (thumbs up). i guess, its hard for people to tell the truth because reality will always hurt-that its often hard for people to swallow the fact.

you said: but sooner or later, when the reality appear, it will hurt more.......

thats why i said dear, "reality will always hurt".....hehehehe...back to square one....hhhhhmmmmm...NOT a good one...!

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