I just had to read "or is it your sense or pride and arrogance that stops you from doing it" to know that you've already decided to generalize the whole population.

It's common in the country. It's not a burden, it's a job. Simple as that.

I have a maid and a driver.

I treat them with respect. Say thank you when I'm served. I ask the driver to pick me up followed with a "Thank you" or "If it's ok with you now".

This is the way, this is the culture.