i am not in the mood of debate about anything. What i wrote on my previous post just based on my experience. I already told to 'original poster', i will be more than happy to help her out to set her foot under the table when she decide to come here by bringing her along to social coffee morning.

@sahlee:
I am not going to pointing a finger to perticular nationality, i know whatever nationality i mention it will just open another can of worm.

hv a good evening everyone ... :-)