Again one more question, wihtout giving detaisl of actual problems.....why the kids are not with her ? then why is she in this country....You shold have put all these details in the first question. Do you want somebody to ask questiosn one by one , and expect reply one by one to know the full story

it is good that some friends tried to guess your problem and helped you with the answers. but we dont know whether thy are addressing the exact problem