"I really liked this discussion, for a moment I thought am the only one who was going through this?!?!? Yes indeed, when I go back "home" I feel like a stranger!!!!!!"

----> I know exactly what you mean. When i go back home for hols, trying to meet up with friends or relatives. They complained because we dont see them that much. But when i want to see them asking to meet up at a specific day ... they have an excuse saying that they are busy doing this and that ... change to another day ... they have something else on... I come half way cross the globe to see them and they cant spare a day to see me??? I probably asking too much much from them.