You are not listening to what I posted. Every forum has its own 'culture' and if you disrupt that culture then regular posters and the moderators are going to give you a hard time. This is what has happened and remember you CHOSE to come on to QL.
You are right you can teach respect, what I should have said is that it can not be expected or imposed. You will never impose respect by calling posters trash, insects, filth, things, b*t*h, wh**e etc. You can surely see that it can't be imposed, just look at Iraq today.
Please drop the westerner prefix as well as it drives people away from some of your valid points.
And lastly, people use sarcasim and dark humour a lot on forums and it can be difficult to detect in written form - make sure you do not read something into a post that isn't there.
I'm not going to re-hash who said what to whom - it's time to move on.

Peace

I don't go to mythical places with strange men.
-- Douglas Adams, The Long Dark Tea-Time of the Soul.