probably that you are already committed. Did you tell this to the girl?
What did you expect when you posted the stupid threat. Sympathy from QLrs? Advice on how to get out of it?
You have broken my heart man! How did you manage to get into such desperate position? This girl must be punished severely for calling you a coward and making your departure difficult.

Shame on you man. You simply lack honesty and dignity.

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!