for the long post, but you know when i start posting I can't stop, bad habit hehehee ..

Well I never was married before or even had a live-in partner[wish that I can :)] guess that I got those points from the environment surrounding me, from the stories that I hear from these people and from the daily life that I'm living and from thinking ahead before getting married, what are the points that would make us have problems later ... just like to think ahead always :)