congrats lovely azzy - lucky guy - I hope he worships the ground you walk on.

i guess it is about why are you fighting and what is your goal.
is it that important then
fighting doesn't help - take time out
come back and have a good chat
if it isnt then just leave it

i can be rather rash to put it politely so i need someone who will back down then i apologise rather quickly and love them all the more for it.

it is when the arguments become same old same old and you reach the rut of groundhog day - then it is time to call it a day

i guess cos he is scottish - the fights may be about money ;)