from your writing, it gives me an impression that you must be a female NOT male as what is stated on your profile.anyways, i really appreciate your advice to me. thanks yea oryx.
its true that perhaps i am sweet, but i'm also a very firm girl, its not that easy for people to step on my head! its true, and you are right that i am very innocent and lack of exposure to the ill of world, but my personal experiences has taught me to be mature in my journey of life oryx.
i was born and grew up in Asian country, personally i am a bit 'soft' because i am not really exposed to the 'harsh' way of dealing with people. i often use that as a last resort. i may be kind to all people, but i know when is the right time to say "you are too much!"
i have experienced facing all those nasty people, who appear to be 'kind of nice' or something! and in most cases, they are the one who get annoyed by me in the end! because these kind of people need to be dealed 'intellectually' instead of letting them to affect us 'emotionally'. because their motif is just to make us annoyed, so if we can easily get annoyed, so we are actually giving them a chance to win! but if we are just "cool" (neutral) with their nasty behaviour, its like we are not giving them a chance to 'give a kick' on us! that nasty behaviour will soon extinct because it doesnt leads to their desired outcome. yeah, thats the words: "no fun at all, so lets chow!".
anyways, i am happy to know all of you and all of you are very friendly here, you tend to help eachother regardless of their background or whatsoever. hehehe...( you can add it if you want). but seriously speaking, i am not acting to be a 'cool' lady here, but i believe in being good to people will make them embarrase to 'bite hand that feeds them' (if they do have dignity).
because i believe:
darkness cannot overcome darkness,
only light can do that,
hatred cannot overcome hatred,
only love can do that.....
hello oryx,
from your writing, it gives me an impression that you must be a female NOT male as what is stated on your profile.anyways, i really appreciate your advice to me. thanks yea oryx.
its true that perhaps i am sweet, but i'm also a very firm girl, its not that easy for people to step on my head! its true, and you are right that i am very innocent and lack of exposure to the ill of world, but my personal experiences has taught me to be mature in my journey of life oryx.
i was born and grew up in Asian country, personally i am a bit 'soft' because i am not really exposed to the 'harsh' way of dealing with people. i often use that as a last resort. i may be kind to all people, but i know when is the right time to say "you are too much!"
i have experienced facing all those nasty people, who appear to be 'kind of nice' or something! and in most cases, they are the one who get annoyed by me in the end! because these kind of people need to be dealed 'intellectually' instead of letting them to affect us 'emotionally'. because their motif is just to make us annoyed, so if we can easily get annoyed, so we are actually giving them a chance to win! but if we are just "cool" (neutral) with their nasty behaviour, its like we are not giving them a chance to 'give a kick' on us! that nasty behaviour will soon extinct because it doesnt leads to their desired outcome. yeah, thats the words: "no fun at all, so lets chow!".
anyways, i am happy to know all of you and all of you are very friendly here, you tend to help eachother regardless of their background or whatsoever. hehehe...( you can add it if you want). but seriously speaking, i am not acting to be a 'cool' lady here, but i believe in being good to people will make them embarrase to 'bite hand that feeds them' (if they do have dignity).
because i believe:
darkness cannot overcome darkness,
only light can do that,
hatred cannot overcome hatred,
only love can do that.....
take care guys,
byebye:)