I tend to over compensate for other peoples feelings when swimming, flying, or generally doing anything, with my kids in public. Kids dont always behave, but i dont want others looking at my children and thinking " good lord these two are the spawn of satan".lol
My little girl is 3 and tantrums are infrequent but ear piercing once commenced. I simply take her home. ( except when on an a plane, she cant parachute so its difficult!) Sometimes you cant reason with a 3 year old screaming banshee, but you can remove the problem.
As for the disagreement between Zak and Aquilla. Zak lost my respect whilst proudly proclaiming, " we are flying home next week, Business Class, hope to not see you on our flight or at our pool again! I have told others in my compound about you, so we know you are out there! Including the staff of our compound!
If she had added " i think your mum smells", it could have actually been written by my 3 yr old daughter.[img_assist|nid=17864|title=Chicks dig Guys with skills|desc=|link=none|align=left|width=440|height=440]