i think ur son now is so fine and he gets back to his normal life, sorry but i didn't read that till today so i hope he is so fine. also u make feel so happy to be a mother , u know before i got married i always think that mothers love there child more than fethers but after i get married and see how my husband love his son and read what u write i felt how wrong i was ,maybe because my dad didn't show his love or maybe the old life style make old men don't like to show love i don't know