I don't novita - hand on heart... there are plenty of oiks anywhere.
I truly have Qatari friends that are dear to me and often tell my friends about my experiences with Qataris.
I really really enjoy talking with my Qatari friends, they are candid, perceptive, warm hearted and accept that anothers culture is different and don't condemn your differences.

Just finished such a conversation.

Oh and they sincerely wish you well and the best which is lovely too.