The thing is you are still a strangers to people here...first, introduce yourself and Qlers give you warm welcome, start posting lovely/helpful comments, & socialize yourself in the gatherings, then the rest its upto you how you make friends w/ them!

But to come and bombard ladies w/ your caring msgs is just not ethical. We may think that you're from a certain department trying to trap us in a lovecase! and at certain point, considered you a troll.

And btw, leave Swissgirl for me, she's already my friend;)