life for indonesian women who married an expat just like any other expat wife. They do have a weekly/monthly gathering in the embassy for 'arisan' (not my cup of tea so i never attend them).

Coffee morning in each other's houses... play date with the kiddies, birthday parties, etc etc.

Shopping ... a girlie night out ... :-0

I will PM you my site address and my contact number ... you can show it to your wife.

Actually we were in Singapore on year 2000 too (my husband worked for local company in Pemimpin Drive and we lived in Sin Ming Plaza at upper thomson road) ... again what a small world. Probably we bumped into each other somewhere in Orchard Road but we never know :-)

Do drop me a line when you get here ...

Take care