yes flipw that is what I am trying to tell to others, my closest friends include atheists and religious fundamentalists; Westerners and Middle Easterns, gays and straights, those with minds deep as oceans, and those who are shallower than an aquarium...any contradiction you can think of. At the end of the day I pick what I like from any but I retain my own personality, and I never felt that arguing with them is something bad as long as we are keeping our manners.....