I know how u feel andrew, when I want to ask for something I ask I'd be really shy! And go like please, thank u and all that, sometimes I feel guilty. But I try to be really nice to any helper, whether at home, in the grocery store or elsewhere, I try to show them that they're appreciated.

In the west, it's really expensive to get help, but I bet if it were as cheap as here, everyone would eventually get helpers.