Next you are gonna say that kids who are assaulted are molested becasue they tell the pervert that they want to go through that horrifying experience.

have you tried putting a gun to someone's head and asking them to do whatever you want? Try it.

What if I put a gun/knife to your head and ask you to take off your pants. will you oblige me?
What if someone abducts you and then takes you to a dungeon and ties you and then indecently assualts you. what would you do.

So grow up man and stop fanticizing. if that doesn;t help then go see a psychiatarist. if that doesn;t work i would be glad to help you get admitted to a mental hospital.
The guys who rape women are those who don;t respect women. they look at women as a source of sexual and their disgusting and grossly satisfactions. There are those as well who assault 80 year olds. did the 80 year olds ask for it. I don;t understand where do you get these ideas from? but i believe you need help