Some guys just don't have the decency to do the right thing. Sad fact of the matter in these relationships is that there is always one person more into it than the other, and gets hurt more. Count yourself lucky you got out when u did and that u are a much better person than he is - would you like to spend the rest of your life, have kids with a deceitful bastard like that. Not a chance! decide what it is u want in a partner and be realistic about where u are going to meet that type of person. Bets are on that it won't be in a nightclub so find a sporting, religious or something else u are interested in group and u are already halfway to finding the right person. Good luck and be strong - there is someone fab out there just waiting for you!!!