Oh yeah I've seen maids holding children in the emergency room while the mother is all dressed up with her pretty purse and make up on. Once I saw the kid was crying so bad and the maid was trying to shush him while the mother was just looking. I asked her isn't that ur child ? She was like yeah, I was like then why aren't u holding him? And she was like hmmm...because he'll keep crying with me and she yelled to the maid to give her the child. What an excuse?! Children have been like an accessory item to some parents. How sad.