I was raised by my Mom. I barely knew my dad. By some miracle, I turned out to be hetrosexual.

That's the way it works for most people. We do most of our learning based on our own experiences. We get guidance from out parents but,ultimately, what we feel comes from inside.

There is no such thing as "gays are", or "straights are" no more than you can say "Men are", or "Canadians are" or "Qataris are".

Look around. It is not possible to generalize accurately about any group of people. To do so is, at best, silly; at worst assinine and self servingly egotistical.

How about instead of drawing any conclusions about gays, ask them. You know what you'll find? You'll find what they are about as individuals. You will still not have any answers about 'gays' in general.

That's because there are no answers. Every single person in the world is an individual.

Before judging someone you have never met and know nothing about, maybe you can remember how it feels to have someone judge you.