First things first... Wot u need 2 fresh air 2 breath and then start taking steps from a mess. Anywayz, there is always a solution for everything. In your case, the first step is to tell your friend to be brave and tell her husband that she would need a divorce she she no more love him and that she is in love with some one else (This is actually the hardest part). But unless and untill you dont advice her to do this step, there wouldn't be an answer for your question. Anywayz, after she has gained her divorce, she is free to marry her lover. After which, her lover can take her anywhere in this world.

To be frank, when i read all the other answers that was posted, people just reacted as if this problem is like a sigma... but its time people understand that, things like this do take place and they all just got lucky that nothing like this happened to them or in there family. C'mon people... y the hatered, the person asked for help, if you cant advice, y bother to answer, just to gain 5 points??? Trust me, not worth it....!!!

Anywayz... i guess this is the only solution you can hav in this problem. Gud luck...