Ok first of all, im not a "bro"...im a "sis" lol

Second, I know it's ur opinion and ur not trying to impose anything...but this is what forums are for...to share and discuss opinions. Those people u knew thought they were in love but turned out to be only physical attraction, so that means they weren't in love, should they have been in love they would've still been married. And that's what we were saying, people rush into marriage, they should've spent more time with each other to find out whether it was love or only lust.

The risk I was talking about is the risk of waiting for true love instead of only accepting a compatible person. That risk doesn't include children because when I marry someone I'll be sure we're that we're in love AND we're compatible. I think u need both.