I agree with Joe, people are getting married way too soon before they get a chance to really know eachother and then after they get married they realize that they weren't meant to be together or they don't love each other, etc...(it's a loooong list!). So divorces happen not because people can't commit cause I think everyone sooner or later wants to commit and have a family, it's human nature, but the reason for divorces, annullments, etc. is because people rush into marriage before knowing the meaning of it and so half way through they realize "Oh this isn't what I thought it would be, ok I want out". I like Azilana's saying "marriage is not like trying to eat hot rice"...it's so true!