I agree with alasi. You must not blame 'Men'. if your husband is cheating you then you should blame your husband only and should not use a plural. There will be a lot of them cheating their wives and viceversa. A woman will always talk about men cheating them and a Man will talk about cheating wives. In simple words the mechanics of cheating is not the soul property of men. Ladies are also involved in it and I know many ladies who are cheating their husbands. There are lots of reasons behind it. There will be psychological and physical reasons for that so it is not easy to sort it out and varies between each and every individual.