What DingDong or Sputnik, ... [I don't know it is always confusing] is right. Publishing here in the website that you got a problem will bring a lot of people who really want to help you and others who want to help you for other purposes. All of we are willing to help you here in QL, but as Dingdong said, you should look for an old lady with experience in these things and have a daughter in your age. Just calm down, talk to her and ask for her help, tell her everything that you got so she would be aware of everything and give you the best solution.

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