i totally agree with your observations... sadly the society we live in frowns upon people who even entertain the notion that there can be crushes and love in life beyond marriage...

surprisingly this lady who spoke on the radio says she hasnt even confessed to this guy...so the matter is actually not an extra marital affair but harbouring a soft corner for someone while you are still happily married....

when we look around we find many people caught in this catch 22 situation...

and about surgically removing the stick from a persons bottom yes.... its a good idea... im sure quite a few of QL readers will benefit....

keep the good ones coming....

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The only failure is failing to try harder.....