a hurt woman looking for ONLY security is not very attractive if u ask my openion..

in the same way women have expectations from their men, its the other way round...

Being so focused on getting a husband that meets a certain criteria of wealth blurs ur eyes from seeing what u r OBVIOUSLLY LOOKING FOR, which is security...

You are simply acting out of hurt ( which isnt the best idea in the world)...

The financial security that u think is what u need might come at the expense of the emotional security ( which is truely what u need and want)...

I dont mean to be intruding on ur feelings or in any way presumptious, but i think what u need to do is to focus on urself first...

when u feel secure enoght, look for someone to share that security with ...

dont look for someone to MAKE U FEEL SECURE...

security comes from withIN not WITHOUT..

i gurantee u , all men are going 2 dissapoint a woman who is looking NOT TO GET HURT..

we are all jurks like that:) we dont know how 2 be around a woman without doing things that would hurt her..

only a woman who is secure inside can get past that, non secure women will be 2 hurtto let it go , and it will never work out...

Again, u r a smart, brave and bueatifull woman, u dont NEED a man to make u feel secure..

find ur own security 1st and that man u seek will come to u on bended knees...

cheers

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