i normally come to their meeting if it is in the restaurant for dinner. I don't drink and hate smokey place, so going boozing in night club is not my scene. Furthermore i have a family on my own, so if i go out everynight i am afraid my husband would lock me out lol.

Never been to rugby club ... single woman should be ok going there (that place full with expats) ... why don't u go out with Xena and Tyler and Eviloops, i am sure they are more than happy you tagging along with them.

Yes rugby club serving alcohol ... and cheaper than hotels.