Question, please.
don't you think its controlling mode to give somebody ur name while he/she cant defend himself/herself??
mean, it is not because you rised the person, then he is ur slave!!
an orphan infant has a right to keep her family name and carries her parents name, it becomes so cruel when the battle between you and the infant.
she has her own father and mother, even if they died or gave up her, that does not give us the permission to decide her life..
again we shouldn't play the god mode and think we have the permission to do so.
this all of Islam idea of adaption about
qoute Jibran Khalil Jibran :" you raise your children, but they are not yours."