Yes we treat our maid very fairly. But then when you are too nice to them ... they start taking their employer for granted. My friend employed their maid. She was tooooo nice to her ... took her to all her coffee morning, seat in the dinner table with the family, bought her a phone card, pay for her hair cut, etc etc.

They went away for summer hols for 4 weeks, then neighbour reporting that different car parks outside their house everyday and the main bedroom light on most night.

In the end the husband send the maid away to the airport with the police guard.