Who cares if you think there is a difference both behaviors in the west, especially in the intolerant conservative South of the US will still call a FAG a FAG and leave it at that, and it doesn't matter what you call them (or yourself) the point of this discussion was that the UNWANTED advances are obnoxious, disgusting, and inappropriate. Just as that of many men towards women.

IF SOMEONE DOES NOT WANT TO SPEAK TO YOU OR FINDS YOU REPULSIVE THEN LETS RESPECT BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS OF LEAVING THEM ALONE

That was the point not wether its blue or lapis, it doesn't matter if what you call it.